Mary Hartman, “How Northwestern Europe was Strange: Marriage, Households, and History” in Household and the Making of History (2004), 1-33.
In the first chapter of her larger work, Hartman begins with a discussion of the development of the discussion on the topic of social change in Europe from the medieval time-period to present. She finds that there have been many “mistaken notions” (2) and a desire to “divide [the world] into distinct societies” in which “social change in a coherent general phenomenon” and “large-scale change takes all societies through a more-or-less standard set of stages; and that times of rapid change necessarily entail a range of disorderly behaviors such as crime, suicide, and rebellion” (3). In this work, however, she intends to argue “that each master=process was itself dependent upon a prior and distinctive development within western Europe — or, more precisely, within northwestern Europe” (3).
Much of the problem with the recent work of scholars on the topics of social change in Europe over the past thousand years, Hartman argues, is that despite an expansion of history to include new areas, such as social history, women’s history (with their well-founded assumptions and arguments that “the activities of more ordinary men as well as women must always figure into accounts of what makes history run”), these scholars have rarely truly “contested the ingrained view that all the historical action that truly matters takes place in arenas beyond the household” (4). She continue:
“The downside of this extraordinary proliferation of research fields, however, is that collective historical attention has been diverted before a number of critical issues in social history and connected fields — especially demographic, family, and women’s history — were adequately addressed. What is more, risk-taking seems to have been invested more in claiming legitimacy for new specialties than in showing just how each expands historical understanding, resolves ongoing controversies, or upsets the existing consensus on various topics.” (5)
Of particular importance to the arguments developed by Hartman is the work of John Hajnal in his monumental work, “Two Kinds of Preindustrial Household Formation Systems” (published by the Population and Development Review in 1982) which draws a very important line across Europe, dividing practices regarding marriage and family, or, more specifically, that in certain countries (predominantly those in northwestern Europe, “most women as well as men from the medieval era on married comparatively late and were much closer in age than their counterparts in early-marriage societies” and “a significant number, 10 to 20 percent–and more women than men–never married at all” (6). The ramifications of this, and the subsequent changes it brought, is the topic of Hartman’s work.
Mary Hartman cites Peter Laslett’s work “Characteristics of the Western Family Considered Over Time” (published in the Journal of Family History in 1977), pointing to four specific affects that a later marriage caused, which are:
“First, the family group was confined to one set of parents and their offspring. Second, the age of the mother during childbearing was late, ‘both in experience of the mother and also in the period of fecundity.’ Third, the years separating spouses were few, with many wives older than their husbands and marriages ‘tending towards the companionate.’ Fourth and last, many households contained unrelated servants, making a ‘peculiarity in the individual life cycle of those who went out to service as well as a characteristic of the domestic group.’” (19)
She later adds to this list something that should not be underestimated, which was that because individuals were leaving their own households and entering society unwed, “moving from house to house, often on annual contracts, [these individuals] could readily make the acquaintance of potential marriage partners — and tat they could do so in the absence of parental supervision. This ‘life-cycle’ domestic service was an experience without parallel in societies where early marriage is the rule” (20).
Hartman notes “There is, of course, nothing remarkable, these days anyway, about young persons being close in age at marriage, or taking charge of selecting their spouses, or saving to support themselves in households of their own” (29), but it is precisely the fact that this development began in northwestern Europe at a time much earlier than elsewhere that is of interest, because it is the beginnings of our modern system.
Hartman concludes her chapter, saying:
“Attentiveness to how late-marriage societies worked will be argued to provide new clues to some old mysteries, including the very large one about the source of a widespread insistence upon gender differentiation, as well as upon a hierarchy favoring men. What I shall present as a fairly swift undercutting of a material and ideological buttresses for such beliefs and related pracitices, owing to late-marriage arrangements, raises serious questions about theories that contiue to invoke universal and inexorable mechanisms, whether biological or psychological, to account for what is labeled “male dominance.” Observable elemets of family structure will be argued instead to fo a very long way toward explaining the pervasiveness and longevity of patterns of gender differentiation and hierarch.
These elements, as noted at the outset, will aslo make it easier to explain otherwise baffling evidence that in a rather brief period of time, the ways people spent their daily lives in northwestern European-based societies came to have less to do than ever before with whether they were biologically male of female. An advantage of taking comparative household and family-formation systems into account in addressing the conundrum of a still pervasive insistence upon differences between the sexes is tat unlike most other explanations, this one will be shown to be amenable to empirical scrutiny and applicable, with predictive as well as analytical force, to gender arrangements anywhere.
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The late-marriage system of family formation will be presented as the vehicle most reponsible for generating novel political structures, tranformed means of livelihood, and fresh socila, cultural, and intellectual systems in the period known as the “early modern era,: from the sixteenth to the late eighteenth centuries. Along the way, I will also show how the system’s very instability exposed for the first time the common ingredients whose presence has ensured, in nearly all societies, the familiar impulse to differentiate roles, qualities, and status by sex…” (32-33).
My Thoughts:
Mary Hartman has, in my opinion, identified one of the crucially important dividing factors of the modern family with what came before. Recognizing the tremendous role of marrying later plays in the life of the individual, of the family, and ultimately of society, this shift cannot be underestimated and needs more exploration as Hartman proposes. She claims that this interpretation will withstand empirical analysis as well, which, while I believe her, I have not tested, nor have I looked deeply into any of her sources.
My Questions:
If a later marriage is responsible for the significant changes that occur in gender roles, what is responsible for the change to a later age of marriage?