Rob Lutton, “Godparenthood, Kinship and Piety in Tenterden, England, 1449-1537″ in Isabel Davis, Miriam Müller and Sarah Rees Jones, Love, Marriage and Family Ties in the Middle Ages (2003), 217-34. (145-154).
In this piece, Rob Lutton asks the questions: “What was godparenthood for, how and why was it used, and what was its relationship to family and kinship? Were the relationships created through baptism and other Christian rites considered as part and parcel of relationships within and beyond the nuclear family, which were bounded by blood and marriage, or were they thought of as something quite different. What bearing did godparenthood have upon the transmission of material, social, and cultural resources between individuals, households, and the generations?” (217)
While admitting that it “was essentially a religious and moral institution which was viewed, whatever its social application, in spiritual and pious terms,” Lutton puts forth the argument that “Godparenthood’s social efficacy lay in its ability to create a ”polyadic horizontal coalition’, a kinship-group, partly natural and partly artificial’, made up of ties between parents and godparents and between godchildren and their ritual kin and sponsors” (218) He goes on to later highlight the symbolic parallelism of the corporal verses spiritual roles as defined under godparenthood between the parents and the godparents, citing that in some Mediterranean societies it was believed that “godparents imparted moral character, complementary to the physical character imparted by parents,” with the ultimate effect being that ideally “godparenthood serves to mitigate the tensions and conflicts involved in the process of household dissolution and formation” (219).
After citing a number of statistics with corresponding graphs of details gleamed from the analysis of wills in the city of Tenterden, England, Lutton writes: “Some have concluded that godparents were not chosen from among the child’s kin in late medieval England. However, the evidence from Tenterden and at least one other centre indicates that there was a significant correlation between natural and spiritual kinship” (225).
One of the more interesting finding proposed by Lutton’s work is the role godparents played in helping children become independent from their parents as they sought to establish their own households. He writes:
“Cases such as this suggest that one of the primary concerns for godparents who left their spiritual kin gifts in their wills was to assist them in marriage and to help them become established economically and domestically in independence from their conjugal families and households. Although this purpose was not usually articulated it is reasonable to assume that this formed the major element of the rationale behind gifts, which are best interpreted in terms of the ideological basis of godparenthood as defined by Pitt-Rivers, that is, to assist in the fulfillment of the individual child’s personal destiny, especially in the establishment of his or her own nuclear family. this transition meant the dissolution of the conjugal family and, therefore, in supporting the child, godparents took the part of anti- or co-parents.” (226-7)
In further support of his claim that godparents served important roles in serving as anti- or co-parents, Lutton cites the crucial need for a larger network of support at crucial times in the life of a family, such as births, marriages, and deaths.
“The importance of godparenthood would have varied over time and may have been greatest at key moments in the complex family histories which could be created by death and remarriage. In times of crisis, which came often when mortality rates were high, kin ties could be strengthened, in the words of Miranda Chaytor, ‘to a point where the distinction between the conjugal unit and the wider kinship system was virtually eroded.’ Active kinship bonds between families joined by marriage, whilst providing a degree of stability and continuity to family relations through crises of mortality and economic hardship, may also have worked to bring a greater degree of coherence and continuity to a household piety. It was a common experience to lose a parent in childhood or adolescence, and at such times relatives had a greater influence over the nuclear family. Collaterals would have been especially significant during these crises, and godparenthood may have further strengthened their influence over young relatives” (222-3).
Lutton concludes:
“Godparenthood as represented in Tenterden and Wealden wills appears to have been invested with a dual nature in the sense conceived of by Gudeman, in that it was distinct from other types of relationship, due to its essentially spiritual and moral nature, but could vary in intensity and social application in terms of whether it overlay existing kinship bonds or the extent to which it could be used to strengthen alliances created through marriage, for example…
Finally, godparents played an important, although as yet little investigated, role in the spiritual, moral, and social education of the young. Spiritual kinship may well have strengthened multi-generation continuities in piety and helped to forge and maintain social and ethnic identities, particularly through the influence of collaterals. Any discussion of the mechanisms and dynamics of cultural transmission in this period should consider godparenthood as a particular and essential aspect of relations of family and kinship” (234).
My Thoughts:
Understanding the importance of having a ‘polyadic horizontal coalition,’ that is, a kinship-group, to support and aid one in times of transitions is essential to any complete understanding of society in the medieval time period. Today, there are any number of ways that individuals make these transitions that have replaced the roles that godparenting played, but we cannot let this modern development hinder our ability to understand and appreciate what was. Lutton argument is convincing and fits with what else we have studied.
My Questions:
What I would like to know at this point is how godparenthood differed across the Hajnal line, and what effects a later age of marriage had on the relationships between godparent and their godchild.